Co-Parenting – The Benefits and Drawbacks of “Taking the High Road”
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Most of the time, “taking the high road” means behaving in ways that are right, even when it is tempting to be vengeful or to sink to someone else’s “low” level. However, “taking the high road” has also commonly been used to mean rising above someone else’s behavior rather than confronting them about it. For better and for worse, there are often many struggles that necessitate taking the high road when it comes to co-parenting. Whether your co-parenting relationship is riddled with conflict or simply experiences bumps and annoyances along the way, it is often better to take the high road when your co-parent is behaving thoughtlessly or is behaving negligently. However, there are times when taking the high road may not be your best approach. If your co-parent is behaving in ways that are abusive, neglectful of your child’s best interests or in violation of your parenting agreement, it may be time to speak with an experienced family law attorney about your options.
Taking “The High Road” with Your Co-Parent – The Basics
One of the major benefits associated with taking the high road the majority of the time involves setting an excellent example for your child. Your child may not understand the efforts you are making. You may doubt whether he or she can even perceive them. But over time, your child will be able to understand that you kept unnecessary stress out of your co-parenting relationship and that he or she benefitted from that approach.
With that said, if your child’s other parent is behaving in ways that are unacceptable and could ultimately harm you and/or your child, it may be time to talk to an attorney. The benefits of taking the high road do not extend to situations in which you and/or your child are at risk of real harm.
Legal Guidance Is Available
If you have questions about a child custody dispute, the possibility of modifying an existing child custody order or enforcing the terms of an existing order, please consider scheduling a consultation with a member of our legal team today. Sometimes, it makes sense to take the high road and other times, it makes sense to address an unfair situation head-on. However, it is not always easy to tell when it is in your child’s best interest to embrace one approach over the other. Consulting with an experienced family law attorney will allow you access to professional guidance from an individual who has handled numerous child custody cases and understands the opportunities and restrictions provided by law. By speaking with a divorce lawyer in Bloomington, IL, you will place yourself in a position to make an informed decision about your situation. And because consultations are confidential and do not obligate you to take legal action, there is no need to hesitate if you need to voice concerns or ask questions at any point. Being a co-parent is tough work and sometimes requires support. If you are in need of support and guidance, please consider scheduling a consultation with a law firm today.
Thanks to Pioletti, Pioletti & Nichols for their insight into family law and co-parenting.
